Are there any regular gay guys anymore?

I'm a gay guy that likes movies, going to a bar/club for the music, and just living life easy breezy. Lately I have been running into high brow gay guys that only like to shop and look down on people with sarcasm, low brow gay guys that are depressing and do drugs, or "super masculine pretty boy" gay guys that are either too macho or really girly. Where are the gay guys that are evenly masculine and can watch ultimate fighting without making it ual? What is going on LGBT community?